Since no two partners are exactly alike, it’s important to adjust to each person we dance with. Because of our individual body types, experience levels, and personalities, we each develop our own “style.”
And in order for the dance to work, we’re always making on-the-spot decisions: Should I let my own style stand out during this moment, or should I let my partner’s way of leading/following determine how things go?
With this constant game of give-and-take, you aren’t just making a string of endless decisions when you tango. You’re making a craft, and defining a moment that will never be seen again.