Whatever answer we come up with doesn’t have to be deep, profound, or long. It just has to be concrete, and make sense to us.
Answering this question gives us a specific starting point, and a goal to work towards. Keep in mind that the goal(s) can, and probably will, evolve and change as we progress. In time, what we actually get out of tango may differ greatly from what we originally wanted. We don’t know what we’ll end up with, but speaking from experience, I’m sure it’ll be meaningful.
But let’s save that thought for later.
For now, answer the question. Anything except “I don’t know” will do.